It’s hard to grow when you are one track minded. When I say one track minded I mean that your focus is solely to benefit you and you only. This could be great for the person who is completely alone having no support or help from anyone. When you find yourself in the position you’ve always dreamed or headed in the direction of success it’s essential to think of how you’ve gotten so far. Yes you may have been the one to pick up one foot after another but what was it that truly helped you reach this point? Were you assisted along the way? Did you have a strong support system? Were you the sole funder? If you know that you surely would of gotten to the point you are in but deep down you knew that the possibility wouldn’t have been as strong if it wasn’t for the support that you so graciously received then it’s time to grow and become grateful for the help you’ve had along the way. Most people get to their destination having strung others along the way yet once their goal is fulfilled they are taken back by the feelings of the ones who not expect, but who are hopeful to be appreciated or acknowledged. The one track minded won’t think about the feelings of the ones who were there from the start. The one track minded will have only utilized the help they needed when they were in dire need. The one track minded will show their gratitude in the moment but they will forget once their goal has been reached. Growth will come from the actions after the success has been fulfilled. Growth will show itself once it is all said and done. You will also see things in true light for what they are and always have been once that success is fulfilled. This type of gratefulness and acknowledgment is definitely not something that is matter of fact or should be done but it is more of a representation of the type of person you are dealing with and if they themselves are/were worth the effort that was provided. Growth is the becoming of a genuine, compassionate, appreciative , respected and grateful human being.